Wouldn't it be nice if you could just watch a few YouTube videos or read some books to get all of the info you need to accomplish your goals? For some reason it's just not that simple, but the ironic part of this wish is that a large part of it is true.

The information age we live in actually "has" everything you need to know about how to be successful at just about anything...and its right at your fingertips.

The problem isn't lack of information.

In fact, I've spent the greater part of my adulthood educating myself on how to achieve, improve, and better my station in life. There's not much I don't know about the checklist of things you need to do in order to become successful...

So why don't I have a yacht parked next to Jeff Bezos?

Fair question, but the answer should be obvious. It's the same reason why you bought this course. There is nothing wrong with the "process" for success. For the most part, it works the same for everyone. The problem lies within us. For some reason we can't seem to take the information and execute on it.

Figure out the solution for that, and you have solved the problems of the universe...(at least for someone with ADHD)

I've never met you, but I already know you.

It is crazy how many ADHD people I have read about or listened to that all pretty much have the same story as me. The details are a bit different, but for the most part we all have struggled with the same stuff.

One place my story varies however is that I had my diagnosis of ADHD later in my life. Honestly, I always knew I had it but I didn't give it much attention (LOL! see what I did there?).

No, but really, I thought it was just about having a wandering mind, nothing more. Forgetting my keys or sunglasses was an inconvenience, but it was just because I was thinking about all of the other "more important" things I needed to do.

I figured out ways to overcome the forgetfulness and managed to minimize it's effect on my day to day work so I didn't worry about it too much. I had a much bigger problem that occupied my mind and had nothing to do with ADHD - or so I thought.

I was obsessed with trying to figure out why I had no motivation. In fact, it's been an obsession most of my life. I had to find the missing link between "knowing" what to do and "finding" a way to get it done.

Just like you, going clear back to my childhood, not only did I have trouble doing my homework, I "couldn't" do it - and I had no idea why. What was stopping me?

I was smart enough, that wasn't the problem. But for some reason, I literally couldn't force myself to sit down and get started. It was like I had a force inside me physically keeping my body from doing what I wanted it to do.

I wanted good grades and praise from my parents and teachers just like anyone else, but it wasn't enough. No manor of reward I could think of gave me the ability to endure the emotional pain of doing the work...not by a long shot.

Not even the negative consequences of failing to do the work were enough to drum up even the slightest bit of motivation. I would rather have dealt with just about any punishment than sit and do homework.

And I hated that about myself. I would beat myself up daily trying to figure out why I "wanted" something, but couldn't find any desire to do the work.

This theme continued throughout my life.

College? - I quit.

Businesses? - one failure after another (mostly because I get bored when the novelty wears off).

Careers? - there is no way I'm making a commitment like that. (luckily I have always been good about at least holding down a job, but I always had one hand on the ejection seat)

Everything I tried to go after would eventually decline into a sewer of discouragement, guilt, and shame.

I needed to do something. I needed to find an answer.

At a young age I started dedicating as much time as I could to subjects like philosophy, psychology, self improvement, and self awareness. Countless books, Audio courses, seminars, videos, and even therapy sessions have helped me see a clarity and truth in myself and in others, but still no progress on motivation.

But I learned that life has a formula to it and the first step to a better life is figuring out the damn thing in the first place. The things you desire can seem very elusive so the formula to get them are equally as tricky.

Believe it or not, however, the answers are usually right in front of you

Think about it. We all know what we need to do to be successful. And if you don't, you can find the answer with one google search. The question becomes: "Will you do it"?

Chances are you won't, and the reason why is because we complicate everything by becoming a slave to the way we feel. We get trapped in a false belief that there exists a way to get what you wan't out of life without suffering through the pain that is necessary to get it.

This, my ADD friends, is the fundamental crossroads you must face if you wan't a happier life. You must decide how much pain you are willing to face. Is it worth what you are wanting? And most importantly will you actually be any happier once you get it?

Regardless of what you choose, you have to get off the crazy train looking for an easy, comfortable journey to success. That train will drop you off in the middle of no where at 80 years old wondering what the hell happened...

I'm not a Guru...

I want to tell you first that I am not a professional and I don't have any degrees or certifications. This course is about sharing the 30 years of self improvement knowledge I've gathered through experience and research. And, most importantly, the strategies I discovered to help me with my ADHD.

Some of this stuff I found from other people and some of it is my own, but I believe the information I have assembled here really provides some clarity to where our struggles come from and provides some great guidelines for living a calmer/happier life.

I'm not saying I fixed everything, but this information has helped bring about some relief. I still struggle every day and I always will. You will too, but my hope is that the things you learn in this course will bring you some relief as well.

So lets get started!

Stop The Suffering

Module 1 - Finding Your Bearings

Self Awareness: The foundation to begin healing.

The Underestimated Role of Shame in ADHD

Module 2 - Surrender to a Better Life

Module 3 - Action Plan - Doing What Works And Feeling Good About It.